17 May 2013

regrets

it was posed to me as a question during my mentorship session.

in the aspect of my whole life till me now, i would say yes.

in every passage of my life i would have been caught in some mind stretching situations

and looking back at it the steps i took to solve the problems were done at that point of time.

though if i did it another way, i think i wouldn't be where i am or met whoever i met.

if i had a chance to visit the past, i would like to see it again in a third person POV.


it will be pretty enriching and enlightening to study myself as an outsider.

but i wonder if i met such situations now would i act the same way i did in the past or change my actions.

but like those shows that have a character being able to go back and wanting to change the past in order to make the future better, it is always futile.

but i think whatever i do now,  i want to do it so that my future self will benefit from it.

that way, the regrets will be lesser.


on the other hand, looking at regrets i think its also a form of the mental state of mind.

to take regrets in a positive or negative way is up to myself.

i have to keep holding on.